Cheating: How Women Understand It

Cheating: How Women Understand It
Apart from bringing pleasure, a romantic relationship can also bring problems. Cheating is surely one of the key factors that destroy many romances. But what if you aren’t a cheater? In fact, women are able to take certain things for wrong. Dating experts from Russian Brides will tell you what exactly they consider as cheating.



1. Spending too much time with your female friends


Even if they are really just your friends, your partner may suspect the things are different. The question of the possibility of friendship between a man and a woman is still open nowadays because people weren’t able to freely make friends of the opposite sex. Perhaps, the situation will change with time – or not. Just keep in mind you shouldn’t demonstratively put your peers over your lover.

2. Adult video watching


No, it’s not about any kinds of disorders. We’re talking about regular porn watching. Come on, I know you do it – everyone does. But some women are convinced adult films watching and masturbating in front of your lady are crimes. It’s like you can’t get enough pleasure from her in bed, which is definitely upsetting. Good if you and your mate can reach the compromise.   

“What if he’s still in love with that girl, not with me?”

3. Maintaining a connection with your ex


Couples part under different circumstances: some can’t see one another anymore and some become good friends. Well, if you have kids, you and your former spouse likely contact each other on occasion. Nothing is outrageous about it. However, if you and your ex are just friends, your current lover may nevertheless get jealous: “What if he’s still in love with that girl, not with me?”

4. Keeping dirty photos on your computer


Sure you have some. For various reasons, we keep those hot pictures of us or our crushes on our devices. You say no one will ever find them. Yet your girl might do it just by accidence – and burn you with her fury. Look, not every girl will necessarily react like this but the probability is high. To keep your relationship free from couple fights, you’d better make sure they are hidden well enough.

Cheating: How Women Understand It

5. Going out without a wedding ring


If you are already married, she likely expects you to never put it off. Regardless of what makes you do so, I advise you to actually wear your wedding ring. Once your spouse notices you don’t do it, she may become suspicious about your intentions. What if you play a bachelor in order to attract as many young hotties as possible? Don’t doubt, she will get to thinking about it.

6. Online chatting to other ladies via social media


Cheating isn’t always physical. Strictly speaking, its emotional variant is even worse. There are many discussions around chatting and sexting as online dating experiences a real boost. Your significant other won’t definitely be happy do find out you flirt with hot girls on the Internet. If you indeed value your connection with her, wouldn’t it be wise to abandon this habit?


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  1. I like keeping an open mind... For me, it is normal for men to look at other women, have women friends, etc, etc, as long as they do not cross the line and ditto for the women... my husband and I have friends of other sexes and we often make sure the other is aware of it and that we do not cross the line... if you are going to be so possessive over your partner or husband it is not trust anymore...and personally I cannot bear it too if my partner was over obsessive or too possessive of me.... and besides, sometimes the more you mistrust and control your partner, the more they want to do it.. but well, that is my opinion.....

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    1. Very well said Miera.

      I also believe that having an open conversation with your partner about each others friends is a right way. You build trust to each other, and not making each other suffocate with the relationship.

      Jealousy will always be in a relationship - in any kind of relationship. However, if both partners are open and talks about it, and not creating a wild fire, then it's totally okay.

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  2. i agree with most of these, although I think going to a strip club might find a place on your list. the one that gets me is the ex's. ugh!

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    1. Hi Dear,

      Yeah they say that Men will always be Men, and I get it. As long as the Men (or Women) are not creating intentional doubts (consciously and subconsciously) then there is no reason for any doubts.

      But sometimes, people do things behind their partner's back because of hesitation of openness to communicate or what do they want and need.

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  3. i was cheated once, and point 1 is definitely true. he was spending a lot of time with others.

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    1. Am sorry Gengqian. But I think you are now in a happy place with your new LOVE!

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  4. I agree with most of this. I didn't realize there was an actual Russian Brides website. You learn something new every day.

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    1. Hahaha yeah, I think this is to Russian Brides are to cater specific niche. I learned from my research that Russian women are also having a difficulty in finding their life partners, because of their culture.

      And also (some) Russian women wants a new life outside their country, more reason to seek life partners in other countries.

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  5. These are plenty of scenarios that are deemed as cheating, or not. There are many circumstances that cause people to cheat and it is not up to us to judge. Only the parties involved know best.

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    1. I also agree with you Emily.

      However, we still can't deny the old saying : If there is smoke, there is fire".

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  6. This is such a touchy subject. Cheating can be defined as so many different things. Social media, to me, is a huge factor in cheating.

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    1. I agree that it happens Jessica due to easy accessibility. But with open communication with your partner, cheating will be at least minimized or prohibited.

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  7. very interesting read. I agree with you on this.

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  8. Hmm... totally agreed on the points mentioned above. It's so true that cheating not just physical.

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    1. More physical and caught it in the act, is definitely CHEATING.

      Then time to dump the person and move on to the next.

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  9. Some interesting thoughts here. I think different people have different comfort levels with some of these things. I know I have a lot of guy friends and I wouldn't want my friendships to be limited just because I'm in a relationship.

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    1. Thank you Nellwyn for your thoughts.

      As long as we set the clear boundaries to ourselves, then there will be no issue for both, and to our friends.

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  10. My husband and I always joke that we're not married anymore if we're not wearing our rings (whoops - I'm not wearing mine right now!). But I would be mad if he started going out without it, that's for sure.

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    1. LOL you are soo funny Beth! You're the BOSS!

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  11. Yeah,I do feel what you were saying. Sometimes it does feels that, but most important thing is trust your partner. :)

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    1. I applaud you Zayani. TRUST IS EVERYTHING!

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  12. So interesting. Yes some of these points are certainly reasons to worry. Not wearing your ring and online flirting is all bad. This was a fun read...but maybe only because this is not going on in my marriage😆

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    1. LOL Well Kimberly it means that you and your hubby are having an open and honest communication, and am happy for you! Me and my boyfriend always talks about things including our sex life, and its a good thing because we avoided cheating.

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  13. this is really delicate topic, I think the most important thing is to be honest and communicate with each other about what bothers you and how you feeling.

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    1. You are perfectly right Patricia. Having an honest and constant communication are the key for a good relationship.

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  14. I agree not all cheating is physical and as someone who has been cheated on it is a horrible feeling. It is not nice x

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    1. Yeah, and we sometimes says that, when cheating done in digital, karma goes much faster digitally.

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  15. I see many of these things as being really disrespectful to a relationship. I'm not sure I would call a lot of them 'cheating' per se, but certainly not conducive to being a good partner. Some of them are certainly crossing lines though.

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    1. I agree with you Raine. Some people also to these things because of lack of excitement, or wants adventures from the boring relationship.

      The thing is, if you felt you are doom in a relationship, then its time to cut it and move on. And not let the other partner doubts you of cheating.

      Cheaters should spare their partners in misery.

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  16. Lol, I have done all that. I don't consider it cheating. I do have to manage my conversations with my ex so they don't go somewhere they shouldn't, like discussing passionate memories. Thats the past and it should stay there.

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  17. Ahhh I hate cheating. It hurts so bad. Luckily I have found my prince charming :')

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    1. Ohh Fatin, I could feel you are truly in-love! Hugs xxx

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  18. thanks for sharing!!! Gain a lot of knowledge from here!!

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    1. You are always welcome dear. I rarely share relationship theme topics, but it is very important that we learn these things.

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  19. Wah! thanks for the eye opener. I will take note on that

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    1. You are always welcome here Kelly, and thanks babe for visiting :D

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  20. I agree abandoning social media conversations with other women would be a good thing for the health of a relationship. But if you are going there in the first place I think it's important to analyze why you feel like you needed to be there. It may not be right for you to be there, but if you are there because your relationship with your significant other is toxic and you do it to get a break, you might think about leaving the relationship instead.

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    1. Very well said David. Spare the partner from possible misery.

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  21. These are some tips that explains the thoughts and imaginations of a women.Finally,it is all about how strong the relationship is...Interesting read!

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  22. Omg so true. Guys should aware of all of this. They way man & woman thinks are different.

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    1. If our man knows us that we are anxious about these things, they must not dare to do so.

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  23. I am not in relationship yet, single to say it in simplest form. I must agree with the list. There should also be a borderline with female friends.

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    1. Well said Hannah :D And thanks for visiting!

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