Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

How to go from just friends to boyfriends?

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 In the darling 1989 film, When Harry Met Sally, stars Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan raised the important question: can men and women really just be friends? Is it possible for two members of the opposite sex to have a platonic relationship without wanting to sleep with one another? In the beginning of the movie, Billy Crystal’s character Harry says, “No man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.” Even the women men initially aren't attracted to will eventually be attractive enough for a guy to want to sleep with them. Thus proving the notion that the only thing a man wants from a woman is sex. In the film, Harry turns out to be right. Because he eventually succumbs to his mannish nature and he and Sally have a midnight tryst. Their relationship soon crumbles and they realize they cannot be friends. Now that sex is in the equation everything has changed. But luckily for them by sleeping with one another, Harry and Sally open the door to their true feelings. They’re in love. In the end, these two pals do get together as lovers. And in the final scene, they divulge to us that they are now gleefully married. A real happy ending for two best friends.
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