1. Spending too much time with your female friends
Even if they are really just your friends, your partner may suspect the things are different. The question of the possibility of friendship between a man and a woman is still open nowadays because people weren’t able to freely make friends of the opposite sex. Perhaps, the situation will change with time – or not. Just keep in mind you shouldn’t demonstratively put your peers over your lover.
2. Adult video watching
No, it’s not about any kinds of disorders. We’re talking about regular porn watching. Come on, I know you do it – everyone does. But some women are convinced adult films watching and masturbating in front of your lady are crimes. It’s like you can’t get enough pleasure from her in bed, which is definitely upsetting. Good if you and your mate can reach the compromise.
3. Maintaining a connection with your ex
Couples part under different circumstances: some can’t see one another anymore and some become good friends. Well, if you have kids, you and your former spouse likely contact each other on occasion. Nothing is outrageous about it. However, if you and your ex are just friends, your current lover may nevertheless get jealous: “What if he’s still in love with that girl, not with me?”
4. Keeping dirty photos on your computer
Sure you have some. For various reasons, we keep those hot pictures of us or our crushes on our devices. You say no one will ever find them. Yet your girl might do it just by accidence – and burn you with her fury. Look, not every girl will necessarily react like this but the probability is high. To keep your relationship free from couple fights, you’d better make sure they are hidden well enough.
5. Going out without a wedding ring
If you are already married, she likely expects you to never put it off. Regardless of what makes you do so, I advise you to actually wear your wedding ring. Once your spouse notices you don’t do it, she may become suspicious about your intentions. What if you play a bachelor in order to attract as many young hotties as possible? Don’t doubt, she will get to thinking about it.
6. Online chatting to other ladies via social media
Cheating isn’t always physical. Strictly speaking, its emotional variant is even worse. There are many discussions around chatting and sexting as online dating experiences a real boost. Your significant other won’t definitely be happy do find out you flirt with hot girls on the Internet. If you indeed value your connection with her, wouldn’t it be wise to abandon this habit?
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I like keeping an open mind... For me, it is normal for men to look at other women, have women friends, etc, etc, as long as they do not cross the line and ditto for the women... my husband and I have friends of other sexes and we often make sure the other is aware of it and that we do not cross the line... if you are going to be so possessive over your partner or husband it is not trust anymore...and personally I cannot bear it too if my partner was over obsessive or too possessive of me.... and besides, sometimes the more you mistrust and control your partner, the more they want to do it.. but well, that is my opinion.....
ReplyDeleteVery well said Miera.
DeleteI also believe that having an open conversation with your partner about each others friends is a right way. You build trust to each other, and not making each other suffocate with the relationship.
Jealousy will always be in a relationship - in any kind of relationship. However, if both partners are open and talks about it, and not creating a wild fire, then it's totally okay.
Absolutely... I have ny male friends whom my husband know of and he has his female friends whom I know off... We are doing great for over 13 years.. hahahah
DeleteThat's great Miera!
Deletei agree with most of these, although I think going to a strip club might find a place on your list. the one that gets me is the ex's. ugh!
ReplyDeleteHi Dear,
DeleteYeah they say that Men will always be Men, and I get it. As long as the Men (or Women) are not creating intentional doubts (consciously and subconsciously) then there is no reason for any doubts.
But sometimes, people do things behind their partner's back because of hesitation of openness to communicate or what do they want and need.
i was cheated once, and point 1 is definitely true. he was spending a lot of time with others.
ReplyDeleteAm sorry Gengqian. But I think you are now in a happy place with your new LOVE!
Deleteagree with 6 mention above
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting deary!
DeleteI agree with most of this. I didn't realize there was an actual Russian Brides website. You learn something new every day.
ReplyDeleteHahaha yeah, I think this is to Russian Brides are to cater specific niche. I learned from my research that Russian women are also having a difficulty in finding their life partners, because of their culture.
DeleteAnd also (some) Russian women wants a new life outside their country, more reason to seek life partners in other countries.
These are plenty of scenarios that are deemed as cheating, or not. There are many circumstances that cause people to cheat and it is not up to us to judge. Only the parties involved know best.
ReplyDeleteI also agree with you Emily.
DeleteHowever, we still can't deny the old saying : If there is smoke, there is fire".
This is such a touchy subject. Cheating can be defined as so many different things. Social media, to me, is a huge factor in cheating.
ReplyDeleteI agree that it happens Jessica due to easy accessibility. But with open communication with your partner, cheating will be at least minimized or prohibited.
Deletevery interesting read. I agree with you on this.
ReplyDeleteThank you Wai Yee :D
DeleteHmm... totally agreed on the points mentioned above. It's so true that cheating not just physical.
ReplyDeleteMore physical and caught it in the act, is definitely CHEATING.
DeleteThen time to dump the person and move on to the next.
Some interesting thoughts here. I think different people have different comfort levels with some of these things. I know I have a lot of guy friends and I wouldn't want my friendships to be limited just because I'm in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteThank you Nellwyn for your thoughts.
DeleteAs long as we set the clear boundaries to ourselves, then there will be no issue for both, and to our friends.
My husband and I always joke that we're not married anymore if we're not wearing our rings (whoops - I'm not wearing mine right now!). But I would be mad if he started going out without it, that's for sure.
ReplyDeleteLOL you are soo funny Beth! You're the BOSS!
DeleteYeah,I do feel what you were saying. Sometimes it does feels that, but most important thing is trust your partner. :)
ReplyDeleteI applaud you Zayani. TRUST IS EVERYTHING!
DeleteSo interesting. Yes some of these points are certainly reasons to worry. Not wearing your ring and online flirting is all bad. This was a fun read...but maybe only because this is not going on in my marriage😆
ReplyDeleteLOL Well Kimberly it means that you and your hubby are having an open and honest communication, and am happy for you! Me and my boyfriend always talks about things including our sex life, and its a good thing because we avoided cheating.
Deletethis is really delicate topic, I think the most important thing is to be honest and communicate with each other about what bothers you and how you feeling.
ReplyDeleteYou are perfectly right Patricia. Having an honest and constant communication are the key for a good relationship.
DeleteI agree not all cheating is physical and as someone who has been cheated on it is a horrible feeling. It is not nice x
ReplyDeleteYeah, and we sometimes says that, when cheating done in digital, karma goes much faster digitally.
DeleteI see many of these things as being really disrespectful to a relationship. I'm not sure I would call a lot of them 'cheating' per se, but certainly not conducive to being a good partner. Some of them are certainly crossing lines though.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Raine. Some people also to these things because of lack of excitement, or wants adventures from the boring relationship.
DeleteThe thing is, if you felt you are doom in a relationship, then its time to cut it and move on. And not let the other partner doubts you of cheating.
Cheaters should spare their partners in misery.
Lol, I have done all that. I don't consider it cheating. I do have to manage my conversations with my ex so they don't go somewhere they shouldn't, like discussing passionate memories. Thats the past and it should stay there.
ReplyDeleteYou manage it right babe :)
DeleteAhhh I hate cheating. It hurts so bad. Luckily I have found my prince charming :')
ReplyDeleteOhh Fatin, I could feel you are truly in-love! Hugs xxx
Deletethanks for sharing!!! Gain a lot of knowledge from here!!
ReplyDeleteYou are always welcome dear. I rarely share relationship theme topics, but it is very important that we learn these things.
DeleteWah! thanks for the eye opener. I will take note on that
ReplyDeleteYou are always welcome here Kelly, and thanks babe for visiting :D
DeleteI agree abandoning social media conversations with other women would be a good thing for the health of a relationship. But if you are going there in the first place I think it's important to analyze why you feel like you needed to be there. It may not be right for you to be there, but if you are there because your relationship with your significant other is toxic and you do it to get a break, you might think about leaving the relationship instead.
ReplyDeleteVery well said David. Spare the partner from possible misery.
DeleteThese are some tips that explains the thoughts and imaginations of a women.Finally,it is all about how strong the relationship is...Interesting read!
ReplyDeleteThank you Amila :)
DeleteOmg so true. Guys should aware of all of this. They way man & woman thinks are different.
ReplyDeleteIf our man knows us that we are anxious about these things, they must not dare to do so.
DeleteI am not in relationship yet, single to say it in simplest form. I must agree with the list. There should also be a borderline with female friends.
ReplyDeleteWell said Hannah :D And thanks for visiting!
DeleteCheating is such a touchy subject, you did a great job of talking about it
ReplyDeleteThank you Momma! I believe that no matter how heart-breaking this topic is it should be openly discussed and not shamed to open-up. That will be a first step on moving on.
Deleteit's really, sometimes a man really need to "behave" themselves.
ReplyDeleteI agree. And I also believe that Men will always be like a boy. They need someone to guide... or put an invisible leash :D
DeleteAfter being in relationship with him for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: drosedebamenspellhome@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS:drosedebamenspellhome@gmail.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEM.,.,.,.,
ReplyDeleteUsing spell casters is something that proves that you are coward to face the truth and your new future.
DeleteSo many good points. Talking to an ex is a big one for me. If you were such good friends you should have stayed together!
ReplyDeleteSo true! Thanks for visiting babe :)
DeleteI think in a relationship, communication is key. And don't do something you wouldn't want your partner to do. Watching porn or keeping unknown person's hot photo wouldn't be so much of a problem to me but, going out without a wedding ring and online chatting with other ladies (esp if in a flirty way) would be a problem to me. But before all that, partners should talk to each other what behaviour that could tick each other off.
ReplyDeleteYeah I agree that communication is the key. And understanding each other's purpose why they need to do it. And find solutions.
DeleteI would get jealous if my significant other would spend too much time would his female friends. I would suspect something is definitely going on.
ReplyDeleteYeah and in that case, talk to your significant other. He might have valid reason.
DeleteVery interesting topic, I enjoy reading it. Thanks for the useful information.
ReplyDeleteYou are always welcome here Ivy :D
DeleteI think we should really make it clear what cheating is for us. There are different ways that a partner can cheat, without a doubt.
ReplyDeleteI agree and when you are open to your partner, then there is no excuse of cheating.
DeleteThe past should definitely stay in the past, you broke up with an ex for a reason and there's not reason to stay close to them especially when you're in a new relationship. There are things in this list that I agree with.
ReplyDeleteI agree to you Carol, and thanks for visiting!
DeleteHahaha guys take notes!! Seriously though, I wish more people realized cheating is more than just physical stuff. It all starts somewhere
ReplyDeleteLOL thanks Courtneylynne!
DeleteI totally agree on this! I think cheating is really bad and girls who think watchibg porn with their friends must be weird. Idk just saying
ReplyDeleteLOL save it for yourself, much better.
DeleteAgreed! or if both partners has a strong bond of trust, then i guess it would be an issue. :)
ReplyDeleteExactly! Especially if couple are in LDR, a huge amount of strong trust is needed and they must mastered it.
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depende din sa mga tao i think. coz ako i have a guy bestfriend and my husband knows how close we are and how i give time to him. he respects that, kung yan ang happiness ko. as long as i respect my husband's as well. on my guy bestfriend's part naman, super okay din kami ng exgirlfriend niya. not an issue when we meet up with out her, or we chat or we call. minsan naman i go out with the ex girlfriend. yung new girlfriend di ko pa masyado nakaka close aside sa di pa nagkakachance na makasama nagkaron pa ng pandemic hehe!lao kami di nagkita ng bestfriend ko. with my husband naman, okay lang din sakin ang chatting with bestfriend nya na girl. i even met her when we went to US kami ng son ko. siguro talaga iba iba din talaga ang tao. how open minded they can be.
ReplyDeleteI agree, all humans are grown and trained differently. But one thing is for sure that humans are known as territorial. This feeling only tamed because of different environments.
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