How was your weekend? Have you attended the weekend lure parties around? I was supposed to join in (well not to play coz I’m trying my best not to, for personal reasons) but I would like to join and go to lure parties just to observe, and also take some candid photos for my future posts. But then the weather is stopping me to go out, this bipolar weather that makes me want to just curl up in my bed, and just enjoy the good book with my favorite hot tea.
Anyway, if the weather gets better next weekend, I would definitely go!
So while I’m at home and browsing my files, I remembered I have attended the recent comedy launch party – GeeTV launched on the last 12th of July. Thanks to my Momma friend/blogger Jaime for tagging me along.
Nowadays where physical projection is a must (especially in our works in social media) most of us becoming so narcissistic to ourselves and to our works. And sometimes we can’t control the situation that this narcissistic behavior becomes part of our life’s system, that we don’t realize it affects our lives.
Anyway, what I’m trying to say is, we become so uptight with this ideal projection that we missed having fun and be cool, and just be our true selves. We could wear expensive make-ups (think about the hours of contouring), spending hours choosing for a perfect outfit for our date, and sometimes rehearsing for the do’s and don’ts (yes it happens) and yet at the end of your date night (and things seems not went well) sometimes you feel and think– Why? Is there’s something wrong with me?
There is nothing wrong with you ladies.
Maybe you just need to lighten things up.
Sometimes being too uptight with your date and your ideal of a perfect date ruins everything.
Through the years that I’ve been dating – I’ve learned that having a nice body and perfectly contoured makeup is not enough to get your perfect (almost) date.
A perfect date is looking for a substance, not just physical.
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Lovely to meet these gorgeous influencers in-town
Being cool and funny is the new Sexy
Okay nobody, nor even your friends will continue hanging out with you if you always look grumpy cat, and don’t know how to at least carry funny jokes.
It’s true and it also applies to dating – nobody wants to date a boring one. Period.
Anyway, if you still don’t know what I’m talking about – you can watch the latest online craze GeeTV hosted by the bubbly, sassy, and cool Gee Canlas. GeeTV is the go-to-online comedy hub that depicts daily Filipino millennial habits whenever and whatever. You can also get some dating tips here, actually!
Well, that’s true – being funny is the new sexy. Especially for us women. Or BOTH.
If someone could carry a good conversation and can carry identify good jokes to lousy ones then that is awesome!
There is something sexy about a person who can embrace the silliness and funny and be confident about it. And no matter how hard life is, and you could still laugh with it – everything’s become lighter, and it helps to refresh our thoughts and come up with some answers.
I remember my boyfriend once said,
“I like you wearing those full red lips, and you don’t care when it’s smudging around your mouth when you are eating that burger. You make me smile really. And I find it oozing with hotness and sexiness.”
Well I wouldn’t argue with that *wink
So lighten up and be funny and sassy!
If you are intrigued and wants to laugh and lighten up during your busy and stressful days, visit GeeTV at www.youtube.com/GEETVOFFICIAL
xoxo, Blair
Now I know why I had 4 dates in one weekend and they all ask for a second date. I'm really not bragging it's a true story. Lol
ReplyDeleteStay cool and sassy!
DeleteHahahaha! Some great tips and lovely photos of you as always Blair, with some very helpful tips how to stay cool and sassy! Karen
ReplyDeleteHahaha thank you Karen!
DeleteHugs!
Wow! That is a great gathering of influencers! All of you are looking cool posing and smiling! I can imagine the fun! We have something similar here sometimes.
ReplyDeleteHello Indrani,
DeleteYeah so much fun, and we are excited for the sequel :D
I love what your BF once told you ! Be yourself be authentic and let someone love you for all your flaws.
ReplyDeleteHahaha yeah, more reason to love him even more!
DeleteGreat suggestion Blair!!! We always think that the "outside" is too important, but very often boys (luckily) don't stop there but want some "inside" as well!
ReplyDeleteHello Paola,
DeleteIndeed. But like they say, boys will always be boys. So as girls, our role is to help them understand and educate... surprisingly they appreciate it!
Cool and funny be the new sexy, hmmmm. I think I like that.
ReplyDeleteThank you! :D
DeleteI totally agree with you...while I love dressing up, I do it for fun...so if I don't feel like it, I don't...so if somebody just doens't like me because of the looks, well I so don't care :D Smart advice you got here!
ReplyDeleteHahaha it was an accident and first time it happens to me :D She's adorable too :D
DeleteI totally agree!! Being yourself is sexy!! you need to make sure that under the make up and amazing outfits you are still being YOU!
ReplyDeleteThank you Amy! Being YOU is the best, and adding makeup are just to enhance yourself, and not to change everything.
DeleteKeep on visiting our blog!
Looks like you had a lot of fun. Photo props are the neatest thing. We make them for birthday parties. It adds so much to the picture and can make a funny picture.
ReplyDeleteYeah and photo props are kind of cute! Anything cute is pretty in a picture :)
DeleteGreat photos! You're right, life is way too short to be taken too seriously. You have to lighten up and go with the flow! x
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So true because whining without working, and just being sad all the time will not bring us good only wrinkles!
DeleteHa ha. I love the signs and the attitude. You look great as always.
ReplyDeleteThank you Valerie, you are always great too! And you are a Thrifty Kitchen Diva :)
DeleteYes, I think being cool and funny are the new sexy. All the ladies are looking great.
ReplyDeleteThank you Garf!
DeleteYou are really cool and funny and sexy .Love that ypu took that pic in that dress.Confidence gives off its own aura.
ReplyDeleteThank you Amrita. Some might feel offended that we wore the almost similar dress, but not me! I find it cool and a bit of funny :)
DeleteAwesome!! I absolutely loved the pictures. It was such great advice. I guess I need to work on being a new kind of sexy lol
ReplyDeleteThank you Jewel!
DeleteWe ladies should be too upfront, or ALWAYS HAVE RESERVATION just like I do.. and be charming and funny a bit. No one likes a boring person like a wallflower :)