Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

Would you Date a Guy with Uncut Penis?

8:30:00 AM
In reality, the ratio of uncut men is synonymous with the number of circumcised men.

We can't blame these uncircumcised men - a procedure under the knife sometimes scares the shit out of you.

Just think about undergoing surgery, and the healing process (ugh) the main reason why most of the men (sometimes with their moms) have done it during their puberty stage.

"Does a circumcised penis performs better than uncircumcised?"

A non-stop question /debate most of my girlfriends, and some selected close guy friends have been asking me.

Mind you, dear, the penis doesn’t perform without its owner.

Some women are just like Charlotte:

Would You Date a Uni-Ball Guy? Does Size Really Matters?

10:30:00 AM
Does the size of men's scrotum really matters?

Things Couple Must Do Everyday for a Healthier Relationship

12:30:00 AM

Being in-LOVE is one of the best things in life, and we will do ANYTHING to make that LOVE last LONGER. When in-love everything feels right, we feel we are in the cloud-9, feels so light and warm, and gives un-explainable strength and energy to pursue what we always aim for.  

How to handle Difficult Co-workers

12:30:00 AM

Ever found yourself in a sticky situation with a colleague? Of course you have! Because we all have different beliefs, principles, and work ethics, it's perfectly normal for tensions to arise between ourselves and people we just don't see eye to eye with. But since this is the workplace, we have to remain professional and mature when it comes to such incidents.

Be the better woman by heeding these simple tips for handling difficult coworkers with grace.

1. Distance yourself from the person. If you must interact with the offending party, do so via e-mail or SMS. Keep interactions short and purely work-related.

2. Acknowledge your flaws. Don't put all the blame on your colleague. Understand that you may be at fault too.

3. Change your perspective. Instead of dwelling on the rift between the two of you, tell yourself that you won't let your colleague affect your performance.

4. Try to look at your coworker in a new light. Instead of focusing on the things that bother you about the other person, focus on his or her strengths.

5. Prepare a battle plan. If the two of you have to work in the same project, be clear early on about each other's roles in the task at hand.

6. Engage in dialogue. Confront the other person, but be mature about it. Be extra careful about coming off as offensive.

7. Inform your superior or HR. If the issue still can't be resolved, don't hesitate to seek advice from your boss or human resources.

5 Ways to Spice Up your Relationship

10:03:00 PM

1. Keep things fresh and interesting

It’s a fact that the romance in the relationship has a high chance of growing stale over time. You and your partner both have the individual responsibility to make your relationship and your own life fun as this will bring more diversity, interest and fun in the relationship. Being self-reliant and independent in your relationship is vital and keeps it stimulating.

2. Maintain the romance

Your attitude is crucial in ensuring sexuality receives the attention it deserves in the relationship. One thing that takes out the romance in a relationship is a lack of compliments and appreciation. So make her feel beautiful or make him feel manly and sexy. This helps add sparks and nurtures the sexuality in the relationship.

Also, special time spent together regularly as a couple is vital. You both need to work on surprising each other. Do this by staying spontaneous, think of unusual outings, bring flowers, plan romantic dinners, take holidays away together at a resort and be great friends. Make the effort to make your romantic rendezvous sensual and extraordinary. Get imaginative! You definitely need to add excitement and adventure in your romance.

3. Spice it up in the bedroom

Experiment with different ways of love making with your partner, don’t take sex too seriously and make sure to have fun. The key is to be spontaneous in and out of the bedroom as this boosts your lover’s interest in you. Sexuality is predominantly a mental attitude – so combine your love making with emotion. During the time together in the bedroom, try to look your best by wearing attractive lingerie or under pants. Don't forget to be hygenic! Wear clean under pants or lingerie and take a shower to smell clean.

Most importantly make sure to smell nice. Male cologne or womens perfumeis an effective tool to use as it has a profound effect on the nervous system. The human brain registers smell twice as fast as pain, therefore when an aroma is inhaled it has the power to actually transform emotion. As smell is the only sense that bypasses the blood-barrier to the central nervous system, colognes and perfumes have direct access to the area of your brain called the limbic area – the part of your brain that centers on emotions.
Some cologne brands claim their products contain human sexual pheromones - a substance that acts as an aphrodisiac. You can buy pheronome aftershave, cologne or perfume if you search for it either in the stores or on the web. It's also been claimed that some herbs such as Ginseng and foods such as oysters and lettuce have an aphrodisiac effect - this knowledge dates as far back as Ancient Egypt!

Also remember to never reject the advance of your partner in an unkind way or take them for granted and don’t resort to using sex as a bargaining tool. Take the effort to think of exciting and alternative ways to please your lover in the bedroom- it is really up to your imagination- so get creative! If you don't know how to accomplish this, go to the book shop and search for books that can teach you. Putting up the heat will definitely do a great thing to help you quash the boredom in the bedroom and in the relationship.

4. Communicate better

Give each other the ability to speak openly about feelings, needs, and issues and if you like, other discussion points such as sexual desires. Do not use anything your partner has told you against them later on. Trust is required and a lack of fear- so surrender your ego. With good communication and being great friends with your partner all difficulties can be resolved and your relationship will be more stimulating.

5. Have your own lives

It’s important not to become co-dependant no matter how much you love each other. As stated earlier, still operate as individuals and be self -reliant. Allow each other emotional and physical space and don’t put too many expectations and demands on the other person.Cultivate separate interests, friends and activities while staying close.

Healthy boundaries should be established right at the start of a relationship as this helps in keeping the relationship interesting. In the end, you’ll both be yearning for each other and want to spend time alone together.

A final word

As relationships and lovers age with time, it’s very easy for boredom, resentment, even cynicism and dislike to develop. To get out of the relationship rut and keep the sparks in your love life isn’t easy. It requires work, creativity, compassion, love, tolerance and a positive attitude, but taking time to invest in this special area of your life is ultimately worth it when you’re both enjoying the excitement and the romance again.

12 Friends Every Woman Deserves

12:27:00 AM
Friends are very important to all of us. Second to a family, friends are persons we can count-on. Of course you can't tell your Mom how you ditched your guy when you caught him hooking-up with you room-mate, eww!!

So here's our list of 12 friends that should be on your circle. If you girls missing one, we advice to search and fill-in the missing box.

12 Ways to Flirt Without Saying a Word

12:49:00 AM

12 Ways to Flirt Without Saying a Word

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